You’re not going to find a gay or bi man attracted to a crossdressing man.” No, they’re not gay, they’re not even bi. “Women get really freaked out when they see their husband’s porn and it’s of men who crossdress. “These guys are totally straight,” he says, reaffirming what mostly all of them have already known. Joe Kort, author of the book, “Is My Husband Straight, Gay or Bi?” the predilection is completely normal. If a dude likes to sleep with guys who dress up as women, what do we make of them? According to Dr. “It’s no one’s business.” More than being shamed or outed, the feelings are outright confusing, as sexuality usually is. “My buddies don’t need to know about this,” he says. Max isn’t alone in his sexual preference, though it’s one that’s completely discreet. “But I’m definitely not gay and not into guys.” “There’s a challenge and a certain taboo that makes it sexy and different,” he says. He’s referring to crossdressing men, those who are completely feminine, have little to no body hair, and are “passable” - a term used when said guys look like cisgender females. “But it’s a lot hotter when it’s with a certain kind,” he says. A serial dater, his last girlfriend was an Asian American who he was “completely infatuated with.” “Girls are too easy to pick up,” admits Max*, a 27-year old New Yorker who works at a startup.ĭon’t get him wrong.
